A lot of the times, there are pressure from friends, family
and the society to get married or at least be in a committed relationship. Some
people even put themselves under undue pressure and worry so much about
relationships and marriages to the extent that they suffer depression and
forget to live their lives in the process.
Many men and especially women find themselves feeling
terrible and getting worried that they are still single. You shouldn’t and I
would show you why.
1. IS THERE A PERFECT TIME TO
BE IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Some people have an illusion of perfection; they feel there
is a perfect time to be in a committed relationship and a perfect time to get
married — and the only reason they judge this so-called perfection is age.
There is no perfect time to be in a relationship or get
married. However, the only time that you can deem as perfect in being in a
relationship or getting married is when you find the perfect partner for you;
otherwise, it’s only an illusion, a fiction born out of pressure and imitating
what everyone thinks or how they feel.
The goal shouldn’t even be to get married or be in a
relationship, the goal should be to have the right relationship/marriage. Many
people get pressured into relationships and marriages that they just enter
anyone.
2. THERE IS NO LACK OF
POTENTIAL PARTNER
The whole of men and women in this world cannot be
exhausted. So stop feeling terrible about being single, there is a countless
number of men and women out there; they never dry up.
3. WORRYING NEVER SOLVES
ANYTHING
I’ve never seen anyone who got better or solved a problem
by worrying. If anything, worrying deals with your mental and emotional
capacity to solve a problem.
Worrying would only bring sadness, depression and
unhappiness — and would make it impossible for you to live your life. So, why
feel terrible and worry about being single?
. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE
A lot of people channel their energy on being in
relationships or getting married that they forget to appreciate what they have
in their lives and they fail to acknowledge the things that are going on right.
Rather than worry about your single status, appreciate what
you have in your life.
5. IT ISN’T BREAD AND BUTTER
A lot of people take getting married to be bread and
butter; that is, it would be all smooth, loving and rosy. You would never see
the tough part on social media, you would rarely see the frown and the tears
that a lot of people have suffered by rushing into a marriage that wasn’t
supposed to be.
So stop getting carried away with everything you see on social
media and start living and loving your life.
6. YOU CAN NEVER TELL
Life is full of mysteries and you can never tell when love
would find you and when you would meet that person you have always been
yearning for; love comes when you least expect — and when you meet that right
partner, you would forget that there was a time you were once unhappy.
However, worrying might kill the pathway of your meeting
that right person for you.
7. LIVE YOUR LIFE
Life is short, life is one, and you never get second
chances. So you just have to embrace life. Worrying kills everything, worrying
ruins your life and never solves anything. You can’t live your life to the
fullest if you keep worrying.
8. Singleness, relationships and marriage only make a part
of your life. There are other parts of your life that needs attention and
working on too.
Make the best part of your single life working on yourself
and preparing for marriage rather than worrying.
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